Sally,
Okka just came to pick up Nina and BE. I hope you know how you have made a sad situation much worse. You may be able to rehome BE quickly, but there is no guarantee of this… and certainly less of a guarantee that he will find a loving home like ours. As you said, Nina will be more difficult. We understand this, which is why we offered our help numerous times, but you resolutely refused. I will work on my own to convince someone to home nina and BE, as I realize that we have some responsibility in this situation, but the brunt of the blame lays with you. It was sad to have to give back Nina, but my job is to do what is best for my growing family and Sawyer: I did that. Your job is to do what is best for dogs like BE: you failed.
Dan